Live Workshops & Labs
Upcoming
April 22, 17:00EST- Kink & Culture: BIPOC Perspectives in BDSM with Sarai311
Kink & Culture is a BIPOC-centered exploration of power, play, and possibility through the lens of culture and identity.
This workshop unpacks how mainstream kink history has erased or exoticized BIPOC traditions, the barriers BIPOC kinksters still face in white-centered spaces, and the “cost of entry” that comes with code-switching, tokenism, and cultural invisibility.
Together, we’ll examine how intersectionality shapes safety, perception, and power in scenes, and reflect on what it takes to create spaces that feel genuinely safe and affirming.
We’ll highlight the role of affinity spaces, community-led organizations, and culturally informed consent practices as models for building belonging. White participants are welcome to learn in humility, while BIPOC participants are centered and affirmed.
At its core, this class is about reclaiming ancestral roots, naming systemic barriers, and imagining liberatory kink futures where everyone can play, heal, and thrive.
April 29, 17:00EST- The Erotic Mask with Sarai311
The Erotic Mask is a psychologically reflective workshop on kink personas, crafted roles, and emotional strategy.
Participants will explore how erotic masks can protect, reveal, or transform us, both in scenes and in ourselves.
Through discussion, journaling, and persona-building exercises, we’ll examine how to construct roles with intention, identify the labor behind performance, and navigate the emotional cost of staying in character.
This session honors the power of archetype, fantasy, and chosen identity while making space for quiet self-inquiry.
Best suited for intermediate kinksters with an interest in emotional nuance and psychological edge.
May 2nd, 13:00EST- Poly Power Exchange with Sir-Panda
Establishing and maintaining Power Exchange dynamics between two people can be challenging. Stir in multiple partners and you have a potent mixture that can rock your world – or blow up in your face. Traditional polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) can clash with the hierarchies inherent in Dominance & submission.
Poly Power Exchange: D/s Dynamics & Ethical Non-Monogamy reviews concepts of polyamory & ENM, the foundations of power exchange, and examines how ENM and D/s mix (or don’t). Sir Panda engages with pitfalls and best practices – including topics such as direct and “stepped” authority, protocols for metamours, and poly agency in multiple D/s dynamics.
May 9th, 11:00EST-A Newbie’s Guide to Impact Gear with NyxieNoc
A Newbie’s Guide to Impact Gear introduces emerging tops to the essentials of building a toy bag with care and intention.
This class explores how to choose tools by considering cost, durability, upkeep, and the skills required to use them well.
Attendees will learn about the strengths and challenges of common materials, including leather whips and floggers, natural fiber canes and crops, metal implements, rubber, silicone, and fur.
By the end of class, participants will have a clear understanding of how to select and maintain gear that supports both their style of play and the safety of their partners.
May 12th, 20:00CST-Consent, Negotiations, & Neurodiversity with LilithFoxx
Delve into the world of BDSM negotiations through a neurodiversity lens, exploring the unique challenges and opportunities in play and dynamics.
Consent, Negotiations, & Neurodiversity teaches you how to create more accessible and fulfilling experiences by adapting negotiation processes to support neurodivergent individuals and their partners. This inclusive workshop offers practical strategies for accommodating diverse communication styles, recognizing nonverbal cues, and supporting neurodivergent partners in scenes and negotiations.
Designed to deepen understanding of neurodiversity in BDSM, it fosters environments that celebrate difference, enhance connection, and promote mindfulness and respect.
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February 15, 17:00pm EST
Rather than treating humiliation as degradation or shock value, this workshop explores how it functions as an intentional use of language, symbolism, and relational power. When held with skill, erotic humiliation becomes a site of intimacy, catharsis, devotion, and profound erotic charge.
Topics include psychological frameworks, advanced negotiation strategies, ritualized scene architecture, narrative control, emotional safety, and integration practices for high intensity play.
February 27, 21:00pm EST
What Holds the Holder is an intermediate to advanced workshop on aftercare for Dominants and those who carry power in BDSM dynamics. It focuses on the often unspoken aftermath of holding authority and how to sustain dominance without depletion.
This class addresses:
- Dominant drop and delayed emotional or physical processing
- Nervous system regulation after scenes and prolonged power exchange
- Responsibility fatigue and the weight of continued command
- Self-directed aftercare for Dominants
- Receiving care from partners without destabilizing roles
- Structural practices that support long-term dominance and clarity
March 8, 14:00EST- Kinking with Chronic Illness by AbundantMischief
This class covers adaptive strategies, tips and tricks for playing while managing a chronic illness on both sides of the slash. Learn how to modify your scene ideas and favorite kinks to create fun, feasible play possibilities, as well as considerations for aftercare. Explore helpful questions to ask when negotiating play, both as a top and a bottom with chronic illness, as well as when negotiating with someone who may have a chronic illness, plus options for navigating disclosure of a chronic illness to potential play partners.
March 11, 17:00EST- The Power of “No” with Sarai311
This workshop explores the emotional and relational power of saying no, not as rejection, but as clarity, care, and deep consent. Through personal storytelling, guided journaling, and group discussion, participants will unpack what it means to say and hear no with honesty and integrity. We will explore how refusal can build trust, prevent resentment, and preserve connection across kink dynamics.
In this class, we will explore:
• The emotional function of saying and hearing no
• People pleasing and rejection sensitivity in kink dynamics
• Unspoken boundaries and emotional avoidance
• Repairing trust and connection when no is not said soon enough
• Practical language, scripts, and strategies for tops, bottoms, switches, and those still finding their voice
March 13, 21:30pm- Remote Dynamics with Madame Selana
Remote Dynamics is a 2-hour online intensive designed for kinksters who want to build authority, tension, and erotic intensity across distance. No touching. No guessing. No weak texts. Just structure, control, and presence that lands like you are in the room.
Whether you are in a long-distance dynamic, travel frequently, or want to expand your dominance and submission skills remotely, this class shows you how to turn distance into your ultimate advantage.
What You Will Walk Away With
- A structured remote dynamic ready to implement immediately
- Your own remote scene blueprint
- Rituals, scarcity protocols, and aftercare routines
- Mastery of long-distance power and submission
March 21, 14:00EST- Binding the Gods with Madame Selana
Binding The Gods is an advanced training focused on one thing:
Using rope as a tool of command, structured surrender, and real consequence.
Inside this class you will learn:
• How to establish authority from the first touch of rope
• How to create surrender that is intentional, not passive
• How to build consequence into your pacing and structure
• How to control space, tension, and restriction strategically
• How to escalate intensity without losing safety or composure
• How to design rope sequences that create psychological impact
You will leave with practical frameworks you can immediately apply to your scenes.
March 28, 13:00EST- The Art of Doing Nothing with Madame Selana
A 3-hour experiential workshop exploring how stillness, subtle gestures, and micro-reactions can create intense presence, anticipation, and sensual electricity.
In this circle, participants will explore:
• The erotic tension of micro-moments and hesitation
• How gaze, posture, and breath communicate authority, consent, and invitation
• Subtle influence and surrender without action
• The sensuality of anticipation and pause
• Negotiating boundaries and presence in an energetic, hands-on space
Through guided exercises and paired awareness games, the dynamics of attraction, tension, and connection are felt, not explained. Every pause, glance, and breath becomes a playground of sensation.
Open to Dominants, submissives, switches, and the curious.
April 4, 12:00EST- Position of Power with Sylvastra
In this presentation, we will explore the “geography of power” as narrated through myth, history, and neuroscience. In the second part, we will integrate this understanding through visualization exercises inspired by yoga nidra, along with reflective journaling questions.
Themes will include the relationship between power and fear, the alchemizing role of consent, and how dominance and submission influence, but do not determine, power exchanges. We will also explore how power exchange can express, affirm, and transcend gender and gender roles.
Our goal is to reclaim power as an aspect of health, regulation, and liberation, rather than a tool of erosion and dependency.
April 5, 16:00EST- Beyond the Blankets: Advanced Aftercare for High-Impact Players with MadameSelana
Aftercare is often portrayed as soft blankets, cuddles, and gentle reassurance. While this works beautifully for many scenes, it does not serve every player.
For high-impact masochists, sadists, and those who thrive in intense physical play, traditional aftercare can feel jarring, unnecessary, or even disruptive to the headspace they worked hard to reach.
So what does care look like when softness is not the answer?
In this class, we explore advanced aftercare strategies designed for intense play. We will examine how the nervous system processes impact scenes, how adrenaline and endorphins affect the body, and why some players need integration rather than comfort.
April 11, 10:00EST- Insidious Ingmominy with NyxieNoc
“Insidious Ignominy” is a 200-level class designed for those with prior experience in kink, who are ready to explore the darker, more nuanced aspects of humiliation and degradation.
This class delves into the complex allure of these power dynamics, focusing on the thrilling possibilities of covert public and semi-public scenes.
We’ll discuss how to navigate these intense experiences within the bounds of legality and ethical consent, ensuring your play remains both safe and consensually grounded.
This class is not for beginners; a solid foundation in kink practices is essential.